About

Overcoming an impossible task takes time.

Several years ago, my wife and I finally found a house we could afford. It’s a lovely little house, and we still live in it.

The only problem with the house was that the entire backyard was CONCRETE! That’s right; I said concrete. One of the former owners worked for a concrete company, and anytime they had leftovers, they poured another pad until the whole yard was gone.

You may or may not know this, but it isn’t easy to get rid of concrete. You must either use a jackhammer or cut it with a diamond blade, get equipment that can dig it up, and then haul it to the landfill. But that’s just the start of the journey because once you have the muddy dirt exposed, you can begin to shape it into the green space you want it to become.

We are determined to make that happen and turn it into a place to enjoy spending our time. We are now more than halfway through and are beginning to envision what it will look like someday!

This journey is a challenge.

Coming to counseling can be similar to that concrete. You come with a problem that seems impossible to crack.

First, you try to break it with tools not made for the job. Maybe you get mad and wail on it with a sledgehammer one evening and crack it a little. Perhaps you are even able to pull up some corners to reveal the dirt underneath.

Eventually, though, you’ll realize that if you’re ever going to finish, you need to call someone for help – a professional who can help you break the problem into smaller pieces and dig!

When we sit down together, I want to hear your story. How did the concrete end up there in the first place? How long have you been living with it? And what steps are you willing to take to dig it up and replace it with the life you truly want?

Why Dig Counseling Services?

I have made it my mission in life to help others get through the most challenging times imaginable. You can take many career paths when you become a licensed counselor. But I always knew I would end up in private practice doing the deep and meaningful work you are looking for in a counselor.

When I imagine a metaphor for the work I do, I picture a backhoe digging into the soft soil at the top, hitting the tough rocky layers, and continuing to dig until I find the heart of the matter buried underneath – whatever it is.

And then, I begin the process of landscaping the torn-up soil to cultivate new growth.

About Aaron

Let’s look at all the dirt first.

You’ve probably clicked on this About Page in hopes of finding out who this Aaron guy is. So, here’s the dirt.

I have been fired from jobs, punched walls in frustration, and watched meaningful relationships crumble to pieces. I have been separated, divorced, and now happily remarried. My actions have at times directly affected the lives of people that I love.

I have been frustrated with people in my life to the degree that I stopped talking to them. And I have been so depressed and anxious that I couldn’t even move, and I felt like it would never end.

My life has been a series of ups and downs so dramatic at times that you could make a comedy series several seasons long – assuming you have a dark sense of humor.

Then things changed.

I went to therapy. That’s right – I also go to therapy. That’s how much I believe in it.

I still go to the same therapist almost ten years after my first session with him, and I continue to become the human being I am meant to be. It has been so life-changing that I decided to become a therapist.

I attended James Madison University, got my master’s degree, and am now a Licensed Professional Therapist (LPC) serving all of Virginia.

Over the last decade, I have worked with children with behavioral problems, dysfunctional families, and couples whose relationship fell apart. I also have worked with homeless adults with schizophrenia and bipolar disorder, university students overwhelmed with anxiety about their assignments, and professionals overwhelmed with the world around them.

My life is grounded in my family and friendships.

I am married with three children growing up quickly right before my eyes and becoming amazing people. I spend much of my free time with them.

Another major part of my life is running. I run to stay physically and mentally healthy and make sure I connect with the world outside of my home.

My wife and I also enjoy entertaining and playing nerdy board games with our friends. And I have a Yorkie puppy named Pippin (from Lord of the Rings). You will very likely meet him someday if you choose to work with me.

It’s time to commit yourself to a task worth doing.

Don’t wait any longer to start the journey. Call me right now at (434) 202-4157. I’m ready to help you dig in and unearth your potential.